Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Chick-fil-a = Happiness

when wondering where you can find me... after work, often times I will be sitting in my local coffee shop "Chocolate," or in my local "chick-fil-a!" Chick-fil-a, you ask? Well I'll answer... The food is out of the ordinary Awesomely amazing! I have a good friend who works there, who puts a smile on my face and cheers me up on down days! When he's not in a good mood and has had a bad day, I do my best to cheer him up also... it's a cheer each other up friendship. I even take him baked goods when I'm in the mood to bake and don't want to eat it myself :), the appreciation, and reaction is worth every moment of cooking it.

Said friend can be described as a hilarious, caring, sweet, over-the-moon crazy, out of the ordinary kind of person. You don't often meet these kinds of people. He would do ANYTHING for a friend, and go out of his way to put a smile on your face. Often times if you don't get his humor, one can find themselves offended. Which if the case, is just SAD! Because I often find myself in fits of laugher when in his presence. 

Yesterday, I was just sitting there studying, he walked over and wrote a encouraging pick me up message on my friends note book. So, when she returned from the restroom, she had a random act of encouragement on her note book. "You solve that math!" -<3 N!  It worked like a charm, she was in fits of laughter for several minutes! 

Another thing that happened was, there is a new employee in training we will call him "J," J was asking N (my friend, who btw is a manager) how to set up the tables at the end of the night. His response: "when putting the salt and pepper shaker's in the correct order on the table. I know your black, but white is always right!"

This is why N is one of my most favorite people, and why Chick-Fil-a is one of my "hang-outs." I'm in a constant state of laughter when he is around, and he always knows how to put a smile on my face.

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Song for the day - Michael Buble

Michael Buble....

There are only so many words, that you can express how much I appreciate Michael Buble. His voice is one I could listen to night and day. It helps, that he is "oh so dreamy." I have never had the chance to see him live, but I would jump at the chance. I'm enjoying this song today, "you know how I feel..." give him a listen...

Monday, January 23, 2012

Song for the Day - Brian Wiltsey "Head over Heals"

I will be randomly posting my song for the day/week of my life... This is my song for the day today. Brian Wiltsey is a local Singer/Songwriter/Guitarist that I will sometimes go and see perform live. He can be found singing in a duo with "Critty Upchurch" most of the time. They both are very talented artists and a worth while listen to. :) I don't just go listen to musicians because they are playing, I seek out good musicians and then go and see them live the next time I hear of a show I can catch, in my busy busy crazy life. That said you can find out more about Brian here on his website: http://www.brianwiltsey.com/BRIAN_WILTSEYS_WEBSITE/HOME.html Enjoy!



Men are SO WEIRD!

I sometimes wonder if life is "out to get me..."

I recently ran into a ex fiance twice in a months time. Granted we both grew up in the same church, BUT he hasn't been around since I broke things off almost 3 years ago! So, I only happen to see him, maybe every 6 months, when his Mom is in town visiting. He likes to pretend that he goes to church every sunday, but his Mom is much smarter than he gives her credit for. She "know's" whats going on...

I realized a couple years ago, when he just happened to show up one sunday for the morning meeting with his Mom in tow, that I had no remaining feelings what-so-ever. God definitely helped me with getting rid of any feels that could ever hinder me, from moving on in my life. I felt blessed.

However every time I see him, I feel as though he has not moved on or has regrets (at least on the inside, the part that no one sees). To bad buddy... you made your own path in life, you dug your own grave, now lay in it... you have and NEED to get over it and move on! Staring at me when you see me isn't going to change things, EVER.... it's just creepy on your part! And... who said you have to act like you've never met me in your entire life in public? but when no ones looking you text me to ask how I've been, and want all the info on me you can get? CREEPY

I understand the thought that maybe he just cares, haha... to this I say you don't know him! Like I said you only get a glimpse.

When in love, the veil is up to any flaws in someone. When decieved, and blinded into falling in love with someone, you don't realize who that person really is, until you're betrayed by said person. then little by little your veil gets holes poked into it, and you are able to peek through and maybe see who that person really is. This could go either way. You could really fall in love to the point of no return, or something could be reveiled that you really can not live with... and that is what we call "the deal braker."

I had a "deal breaker" apear, and it had to happen 3 times before I realized. He's really not going to change. And that was something I couldn't live with the rest of my life. So I left and never looked back, and never will.

I think it sucks that it is akward between us to the point where he doens't say hi, and that he stares. We were best friends for almost 6 years. I don't have a problem saying hi, but I'm not going to say hi to someone that can't say hi to me first. It's been 3 years man... move on... get over it... and acknowledge that we exsisted?? I've moved on... why can't you? and with that said.... "MEN ARE SO WEIRD!"

Saturday, January 21, 2012

"No offense, just a Glimpse"

"No offense" 

Years ago I used to sometimes say things to people with the first sentence starting with "no offense." I realized if I'm starting this conversation with "no offense" that should automatically tell me there's something wrong with what I'm about to say to this person. So, I started to think about the things that I would want to say when starting a conversation with "no offense." 

So, when a man approached me last night in a restaurant, where I was having a pleasant catch up meal with a good friend, and started by saying "no offense" I immediately put up my guard!! 

"no offense, but I was ease dropping on your conversation, and I just wanted to tell you. You could write a blog about your life, or a book even. You could be the next big thing, because you are incredibly funny and your stories deserve to be heard. they are that good and outrageous, your life sounds like its extremely fun to live. Also, if there was a section in the book of world records for most talkative, you'd be without a doubt the person the section was on."

Who?? What?? Why?? Who: says that to someone after ease dropping in on their private conversation with a friend? What: was the man thinking? Obviously he let me know... And Why: would you feel the need to tell me all that if you don't want a reaction from me? Because in your own words "I could be put in the book of world records for most talking!" 

I have the weirdest, most interesting, things happen to be more then once daily. Wow... Just, Wow! There are no words. 

So, here is a start to my random, crazy life Blog! I have been thinking about writing about my life for a long time, so I'm just gonna start now. I will most likey randomly post about the past. My life is complex, and very strange. I find humor in most things. So, enjoy... Laugh... Cry... And last but not least just keep in mind, it's just my life, and You only get a Glimpse of it!!...